On Thursday, March 12, the Wake-up Visitor was Ruth Ann. She wanted to attend her cousin's wedding. The girls were very close. Ruth Ann was supposed to be the Maid of Honor. But she died. She doesn't want to go to the TSP until after the wedding. Ben admits that he attended his brother's concert that way. But he added that there was so much energy there that nobody felt him soaking up some of it. A wedding is different. He told her that a spirit that hasn't crossed over would use up energy and make everyone feel sad or anxious or even angry. Ruth Ann said she didn't want that. She wanted the couple to be happy.
B: The best thing you can do is move on to the TSP. You can plug into the Source. and receive all the energy you need.
RA: But I'll be gone.
B: No you won't. You'll be whole. And you'll be able to attend the wedding with all the other loved ones in the Gallery of the Gone-Befores.
RA: Will she see me?
B: She might. She will certainly feel your presence.
RA: Will she know it's me?
B: I'm sure she will if she is at all sensitive to vibrations. And even if she doesn't know it's you or recognize your energy she will feel happy. She will feel as if her wedding has been blessed.
RA: I want that. I want her wedding to feel blessed.
B: You can do that. People on the other side can bless people on this side. A blessing is an outpouring of positive energy. It changes the way people feel. It can even change the outcome of events by offering strength and encouragement and perspective that wasn't there before.
Monday, March 16, 2015
Today's Wake-up visitor is Jel.
J: It's short for Jelicle Cat. My mom was a TS Elliot fan.
Me: How can I help?
J: I'm feeling strange.
J: No. Not ill, not tired, not hungry, not weak, not in pain.
M: Sounds pretty good.
J: But I'm not used to not feeling something unpleasant.
M: I think unpleasantness is mainly a feature of being alive. Which, evidently, you are not.
J: That would explain a lot. I thought I would live through it.
J: Camping trip. I went along to be a good sport. The kids and Bill love camping. I love a fire in the fireplace inside the house.
M: So what happened?
J: I think it was a snake. I didn't see it. I was too busy watching for bears.
When I was young my dad took us kids camping. Mom stayed home because she was too pregnant. I wish I had thought of that.
M: So you know you're dead?
J: As the proverbial door nail.
M: So why are you still here?
J: Beats me. Am I supposed to go someplace?
M: I'll call Ben to tell you.
B: Hi Jel. I'm Ben.
J: I'm dead.
B: Yeah, me too. But you're really not getting the most out of it that you could.
J: I didn't know there was anything to get out of being dead.
B: This is just the beginning of everything that happens hereafter.
J: Oh. That word actually means something?
B: Sure does.
J: It never made much sense to me. "Here" seems like a space/geography/ location kind of word and "after" seems like a time kind of word.
B: That's a clue right there to how different the Hereafter is from the 3D world where people try to separate time and space.
J: So there's a place where time and space are the same thing?
B: Yes! And even better: Neither one of them exists at all!
J: But if that is true everything would happen at once.
B: Yes! You can have all your birthday parties at once.
J: In the same place?
B: You can even have all the places in the same place if you want to.
J: How would you keep track of them?
B: You don't have to. You aren't limited to being aware of one time or place because you are outside of your 3D body. That's what it does, you know. It limits the amount of reality you can focus on.
J: You mean I wouldn't have to choose between going to my grandma's 80th birthday party and going to the Bee Gees concert?
B: Nope. You just focus on where you want to be.
J: Awesome. I'm ready to see that. It's my kind of non-place.
B: All right then. I'll just drive you over in my Aston Martin.
J: I want to go back and give that snake a big hug.
B: Ha! You can do that in the TSP. And wait til you find out who that snake really is. Uh uh. Not telling.
On Thursday, March 5, 2015 the Wake-up visitor was Gordon. (1)
G: I'm Gordon. You are nice to listen to me.
Me: What can I do for you, Gordon?
G: I want to spend some time in the TSP being a bull.
M: A bull?
G: I always wondered what it would be like.
B: Hi Gordon. I'm Ben.
G: I want to be a Bull. Not for a whole lifetime. Just to see what it's like.
B: I guess I don't have to ask what you find appealing about that lifestyle.
G: LOL. No. It would be cool to be that big and in charge of a whole herd of cows.
B: In the TSP you can try anything you want. Most people don't focus their intent on being a bull but if they did they could. Is that all you want to do?
G: No. I'd like to come back a a door-to-door salesman. In a time when housewives were home all day.
B: You have some lofty ambitions.
G: I like a lot of females. They would like me too.
B: Are you ready to head over to the TSP and start making plans with your team?
G: I have a team?
B: All those females have to come from somewhere.
G: Oh. I guess they do. Like "a cast of thousands."
B: Right. Like that.
Smith Wants to be Chinese Billionaire
Today's wake-up visitor is Smith. He woke me up frantically about 6:00 am but agreed to let me go back to sleep until wake-up pages time.
Smith: I want to be Chinese
Me: What are you now?
S: Korean. Korean American.
M: With a name like Smith?
S: It's an American name. My parents wanted me to fit in.
M: But you want to be Chinese?
S: It's where all the opportunities are. We are going to OWN the United States.
M: I don't see any reason why you can't be Chinese. A lot of people are.
S: I'm going to make millions.
M: What if you are a poor Chinese?
S: Ha! No way.
B: HI. I'm Ben.
S: I'm Smith and I'm going to be a Chinese Pahzilionaire.
B: If you have made up your mind to reincarnate, why are you still here?
S: I want to make sure I get everything I want.
B: Nobody can decide that but you.
S: Like if I'm good I get rewarded? I've seen how that works.
B: No. It's more like you go to the TSP and connect with your soul team and work together to develop a plan for your next shared life time.
S: I can't just do what I want?
B: Well, theoretically you could. But then you don't have any control over who will surround you and what roles they have elected to play.
S: If I'm a Chinese billionaire I won't care who surrounds me.
B: You don't start out as a billionaire. You start out as a baby. It's like a game You can choose how it starts but you have only limited control over how it proceeds.
S: Can i choose to be born to rich parents who love me and support my ambitions.?
B: Sure. But they might die. Or you might be kidnapped and sold for a sex slave. Or you might live a charmed life and then be assassinated the day you make your first billion.
S: I'll hire body guards.
B: One of them might kill you.
S: Man that sucks.
B: See, one of the reasons we do 3D lives is that we like the unpredictability.
S: I don't.
B: You're not seeing the big picture. But you will when you get back to the TSP.
S: What's that?
B: It's the Timeless Spaceless Place. That's where creation happens and all the infinite possibilities are happening at once.
S: Oh. So working with a team is better.
B: Yes it is. Although sometimes you might wonder what you were thinking.
S: Like how?
(Ben gives a brief description of his life being rich and famous and bisexual at a time when his fame and the people he worked with demanded that he keep his sexuality in the closet.)
S: What did you do wrong?
B: If you mean what didn't I consider when making our plan, probably the historical era. If we had started 20 or 30 years later the world might have been more okay with my sexuality. But even if I had considered that, there are always wild cards in the deck.
S: Why do we do it?
B: I don't know. Did you like anything about your life?
S: Surfing. I'm a professor of linguistics at UC by-the-sea. And I'm hot. And the girls are crazy about me.
B: Ask me again why we do this.
S: Ha! It's fun, isn't it!