On Thursday, March 12, the Wake-up Visitor was Ruth Ann. She wanted to attend her cousin's wedding. The girls were very close. Ruth Ann was supposed to be the Maid of Honor. But she died. She doesn't want to go to the TSP until after the wedding. Ben admits that he attended his brother's concert that way. But he added that there was so much energy there that nobody felt him soaking up some of it. A wedding is different. He told her that a spirit that hasn't crossed over would use up energy and make everyone feel sad or anxious or even angry. Ruth Ann said she didn't want that. She wanted the couple to be happy.
B: The best thing you can do is move on to the TSP. You can plug into the Source. and receive all the energy you need.
RA: But I'll be gone.
B: No you won't. You'll be whole. And you'll be able to attend the wedding with all the other loved ones in the Gallery of the Gone-Befores.
RA: Will she see me?
B: She might. She will certainly feel your presence.
RA: Will she know it's me?
B: I'm sure she will if she is at all sensitive to vibrations. And even if she doesn't know it's you or recognize your energy she will feel happy. She will feel as if her wedding has been blessed.
RA: I want that. I want her wedding to feel blessed.
B: You can do that. People on the other side can bless people on this side. A blessing is an outpouring of positive energy. It changes the way people feel. It can even change the outcome of events by offering strength and encouragement and perspective that wasn't there before.